A soft place to land.
Something brought you here. A longing, a question, a fear, a desire. The good news is you don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t need to have your final destination in mind or even believe you can get there. I work with the ones who are still finding their way. The uncertain, the confused, the overwhelmed, the hopeful. Those who have seen glimmers of possibility and want more.
Together, we’ll unravel the stories of “too much” or “not enough” and we’ll find you.
I have three primary goals when working with my clients.
Co-create a space where you feel seen, heard, valued, and supported in your wholeness.
Gently uncover and challenge the stories, external messages, and barriers that may be holding you back, creating space for new understanding and growth.
Equip you with strategies, resources, and life-giving clarity to help you move at your pace, encouraging progress to reach your goals.
A Path of Self-Love, Liberation, and Becoming
Fat Liberation & Fat Acceptance
Reconnect with your body and build a more compassionate relationship with yourself as you unlearn body shame, embrace your inherent worth, and reclaim a joyful, empowered life despite diet culture and size-based oppression.
Gender & Sexuality Exploration
Explore your gender and sexuality with curiosity and care, embracing the full expansiveness of who you are by releasing external expectations and stepping into a more authentic, empowered life beyond strict societal norms on your own terms.
Common Themes & Issues to Explore
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These sessions focus on building a kinder, more grounded relationship with your body and mindset especially within fat liberation, and queer/trans experiences. Here’s what we might explore together:
Challenging internalized fatphobia and cultural messages about worth tied to body size
Cultivating radical self-acceptance and compassion toward your body as it is now
Exploring how your nervous system responds to stress and body-related shame or discomfort
Identifying and shifting unhelpful beliefs around food, movement, and rest
Building gentle, personalized practices for tuning into body sensations and needs
Navigating the intersection of neurodivergent sensory experiences and body awareness
Healing from trauma that lives in the body and impacts your sense of safety
Reframing movement and exercise as joyful or nurturing instead of punitive
Setting boundaries around diet culture, beauty standards, and ableism in your environment
Growing your capacity to notice and interrupt negative self-talk with curiosity and kindness
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These sessions provide a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your feelings, questions, and experiences as you discover your authentic self. We can work together to:
Unpack what being trans or queer means beyond labels and stereotypes
Explore your feelings about gender and/or sexuality without pressure or expectation
Identify the parts of your experience that feel most true and authentic to you
Navigate fears, doubts, or confusion that come with questioning identity
Build language and concepts that resonate with your unique journey
Reflect on how your relationships and communities impact your process
Explore coming out — if, when, and how you might want to share your identity
Address internalized stigma or external pressures related to trans and queer identities
Develop self-care and coping strategies for moments of uncertainty or dysphoria
Imagine and co-create possibilities for living as your full, authentic self
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These sessions are about nurturing your strength and sustaining your spirit while navigating the ongoing challenges of systemic injustice. We might explore:
Identifying and honoring your sources of resilience and inner strength
Processing feelings of grief, anger, or exhaustion related to oppression
Building daily practices that restore your energy and sense of meaning
Developing strategies to resist burnout and avoid compassion fatigue
Creating boundaries that protect your well-being without disconnecting from community
Cultivating radical hope, finding and holding onto joy and possibility even in hard times
Exploring collective healing and the power of community support
Navigating the tension between personal healing and political action
Reclaiming your voice and agency in spaces that have historically marginalized you
Envisioning and co-creating futures grounded in justice, freedom, and connection
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These sessions create a judgment-free space to connect with your desires, boundaries, and relationships on your own terms. Some topics we might dive into include:
Exploring your sexual identity and desires with curiosity and compassion
Building confidence around communicating needs and boundaries in intimacy
Navigating consent and communication in polyamorous or non-monogamous relationships
Unpacking fears or shame related to kink, fetish, or alternative sexual practices
Healing from past experiences that impact your ability to experience pleasure
Cultivating deeper connection and vulnerability with partners or yourself
Challenging cultural and internalized messages about sexuality, body, and pleasure
Exploring the intersection of neurodivergence and sexual expression
Creating practices that honor your rhythm, comfort, and evolving desires
Imagining and designing relationship structures that truly fit your values and needs
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Whether you’re facing a big shift or a series of changes, these sessions offer space to slow down, process, and move forward with intention. Some areas we might explore:
Making sense of your feelings around change including uncertainty, excitement, grief, or fear
Developing practical steps to adapt and create stability in your new reality
Building routines and self-care practices that support your well-being during transition
Navigating identity shifts, including coming out, gender transition, or new roles
Managing relationships that are changing alongside you, setting boundaries, asking for support
Exploring your values and priorities as they evolve through transition
Coping with loss, whether of a role, relationship, or way of life
Building resilience for the ups and downs of change
Finding and strengthening your support network
Imagining and creating a vision for the next chapter in your life
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These sessions are a space to explore how you can show up with more clarity, care, and accountability, especially in relationships with fat, queer, and trans folks. Some common themes we might explore include:
Understanding how anti-fatness, homophobia, and transphobia show up in everyday interactions, even with the best intentions
Unlearning assumptions rooted in diet culture, cisnormativity, and heteronormativity
Navigating moments when you’ve caused harm without shutting down, centering yourself, or avoiding repair
Practicing how to respond when someone sets a boundary or shares feedback
Recognizing how your own identity, power, or privilege shapes your role in the relationship
Examining your fears of “getting it wrong” and learning how to move through them with accountability and care
Supporting fat, queer, and trans people without trying to “fix” or speak for them
Building language and confidence for having conversations around gender, body autonomy, or oppression
Identifying ways to redistribute resources and amplify marginalized voices in your relationships, workplace, or community
Staying connected and committed even when it’s uncomfortable and learning how to make allyship part of your daily life, not just a performance or one-time act
1:1 Coaching & Consultation Rates
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This is a single, focused session where we dive deep into a topic that matters to you. I’ll bring my full presence, training, and experience to support whatever you're navigating. If you'd like to continue, you're welcome to book additional 60- or 90-minute sessions. If we meet more than four times within a year, we’ll move into an ongoing support model that better reflects that ongoing connection.
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These sessions are for folks who want or need ongoing support. Most people at this tier meet with me every other week, but I’m happy to find a rhythm that works for you whether that’s weekly, monthly, every six weeks, or something else that fits your needs and budget.
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These sessions are for people who want to show up with more care, clarity, and intention for the people in your orbit. Whether you’re a therapist, partner, parent, friend, or chosen family, we’ll explore the questions, emotions, and dynamics that come up when you're trying to support someone through a lived experience different from your own. These conversations are a space for reflection, learning, and building your capacity to show up with curiosity, compassion, and accountability.
Sliding Scale & Accessibility
I offer a sliding scale so that more people can get the support they need. My listed rates reflect the true cost of this work and help sustain my practice.
If those full rates are out of reach, you’re welcome to choose a rate within the sliding scale that honors your circumstances, no need to explain or justify.
If you’re able to pay at the higher end of the scale, know that your contribution helps make it possible for others to pay less. This is one way we practice interdependence, a form of gift economy where funds circulate to support the collective.
I also welcome barter or trade, especially from those who are resourced in time, skills, or other non-monetary offerings. If that feels like a better fit for you, just let me know and we’ll explore possibilities together.
Want to know more about what it’s like to work together one on one?
Coaching is a collaborative space where we center your values, challenges, and goals together. Whether you're craving clarity, support, or change, this is a space to reconnect with yourself and move forward with intention.
Training & Facilitation
I also offer professional development and custom trainings for service providers, educators, therapists, and organizations who want to deepen their work at the intersection of healing, justice, and creative practice. Topics often include fat liberation, gender-affirming care, trauma-informed approaches, preventing burnout, and supporting neurodivergent clients, but I’m happy to tailor the content to your needs.
If you're interested in bringing this work to your team or community, please contact me to start a conversation.